Mom Life with Adrienne

Today I am linking up with Shay and Erika with How We...Wednesday. 

In January we discussed New Years Goals and Resolutions. 

In February we talked about Taking Care of Ourselves

In March we talked about How We: Mom Fail and Live to Discuss.

In June we discussed: How We Plan Our Summer Vacation

Today I am linking up with Shay and Erika with How We...Wednesday. 

In January we discussed New Years Goals and Resolutions. 

In February we talked about Taking Care of Ourselves

In March we talked about How We: Mom Fail and Live to Discuss.

(yeah I missed a few months)

Today we are talking about How We Plan Our Summer Vacation.

I have always loved traveling. I grew up going on family vacations with my parents usually by motor home, other times we rented houses, condos, and stayed in hotels. I always dreamed of traveling the United States and the world so much that I decided to become a travel agent in hopes of planning wonderful vacations for others as well. Unfortunately the company I worked for had unrealistic expectations, with no assistance and things didn't work out. I still plan my own vacations and dream of many more. 

Here are some tips and insists into how our family currently plans our summer vacations:

1- Agree on a Time and Taking Time Off 

This is an easy one for me since I am a stay at home mom. Brian is self employed and able to adjust his schedule as needed and if he has a closing or inspection that needs done while we are gone he has partners to help him out as well. Since I have shared parenting of Aubriella I discuss possible dates for our vacation with her father so they don't conflict with anything he has planned. So far this has never been an issue. 

2- Destination 

With our being kids so young still (2 and 6) Brian and I decide where we are going to go. We have ideas where we want to visit, most places with kids, some without. We look at it realistically what there is to do with kids our ages, out timeline, price.... Once our kids get older we will take their ideas into consideration. Right now if we ask Ella where she wants to go it is either Disney World, or back to Michigan to see her cousin named Ella. We are planning Washington D.C. and more educational vacations once they get older to be able to understand and enjoy it. 

3- Budget/Save

We are always putting money away for vacations and an emergency fund. How much we have saved is a huge factor on our vacation. I would love to do a Disney Cruise but know that isn't currently in our budget. We also put all our change in our Disney Vacation Fund container that we made a few years ago. I will roll it all and cash it in before our vacation to use for souvenirs. We don't pay for our vacations by credit card. The kids also only get so much spending money the whole trip, usually they have birthday money or Christmas money that they use. 

4- Prepare

Research, research, research. No matter where we are going I always have some kind of plan in mind. I come up with ideas of places to eat, what to do, where to go, etc. Brian is also very involved in coming up with ideas. For this upcoming Disney trip I read an updated Disney with kids book since so much changes so often and different ages and different heights mean different things we can and can't do. 

Disney for Ella's 5th birthday left Austin at home 2016

5- How Far in Advance

Sometimes we plan spur of the moment as in a few months in advance other times we plan a year in advance. Our vacation for this summer is already booked and we have already started talking about where we want to go next year. When we went on our mini vacation with the kids to Pittsburgh over Spring Break, we literally booked the hotel the night before and decided when we woke up at the hotel what we were doing that day, but had ideas in our head. 

Bucket List (random order)

- Disney Cruise

- Alaska

- Las Vegas

- Niagara Falls

- Nashville

- New Orleans

- Florida (not Disney)

- Caribbean Cruise

- Hawaii

- Mexico

- Punta Cana

- Washington DC 

What is on your vacation Bucket List?

Today I am linking up with Shay and Erika with How We...Wednesday. 

In January we discussed New Years Goals and Resolutions. 

In February we talked about Taking Care of Ourselves

This month is How We.. Mom Fail and Live to Discuss.

Before becoming a mother, I had this illusion that motherhood was going to be easy and I planned on being "perfect". I read a few books and thought I knew what to do. I use to walk around the mall or go into the store and see a mom not perfect, kids misbehaving... and think that was never going to be me. Yeah I was wrong. There is the harsh reality that NO ONE is perfect. Everyone fails at something. I have learned to accept that, learn from my mistakes, and just be the best mom I can be. 

We all can show and share our highlight real, and not show the reality of what happens at home. Instagram is known for it's perfection. If you watch my stories I am far from perfect, most of the time I have no make-up on, hair in a top knot, kids screaming in the background. That is real life. 

Real Life Mom Fails:

- Breastfeeding: goal to go until at least 6 months preferably a year. Reality I had it to 6 weeks with Ella then didn't have the most idea pumping arrangments are work so I quit breastfeeding. Austin I lasted until 9 weeks, then had to stop because he was having heart problems and I couldn't have any caffeine. I ate chocolate cake without thinking about the caffeine in it. I flipped out that I was going to kill my baby without realizing it so I stopped breastfeeding. 

- Keeping up with them: When Ella was around 3 years old she ran away from me. I was at my parents house she ran down the street and I couldn't catch up to her. She eventually stopped and sat in someone's front yard. This was a huge reality check that I was out of shape and needed to do something about it. Since then I have 

- Co-sleeping: It took Ella until we moved into a new house, she got her own room, and Austin arrived that she slept in her own bed. Austin we put in his bed, he wakes up most nights and crawls into our bed. 

- Wrong Shoes for gym: Ella has to wear tennis shoes to school to participate in gym class. She has had to sit out a few times and I had to take her a pair of shoes once. 

- Not pizza day: I sent Ella to school one Friday with no packed lunch, thinking it was pizza Friday, I was a week off it was speghetti bake day instead. I had to pack Ella a lunch and take it up to her.

We all have our mom fails. I found this Mom Guilt Bingo on Pinterest. I have a lot of this mom guilt, but I have learned not to stress out over it. I am being the best mother I can be for my children. I am not perfect, I can be forgetful, I may not doing something the way other parents do, but I do my best for my kids. They are both still living so I am winning. 

- Pizza for Dinner

- Yelled

- Used TV as a Babysitter

- Yoga Pants and Bedhead at Pickup

- Incomplete Baby Book

- Failed to Cherish Every Moment Today

- Birthday Party Wasn't Pinterest Worthy

- Non-Organic Produce Purchased

- High Fructose Corn Syrup in House

- He's Still Not Potty Trained

- Car Seat Faces Forward EVER

- Won't Buy Them a Puppy

- Threw Away Their Artwork

- Happy Meals for Lunch

- Had an Epidural

- Still Haven't Lost the Baby Weight

- Discontinued Breastfeeding Before 1 Years Old

- Hiding in the Bathroom

- Screen Time of Any Kind.